You asked for your ideal soul mate, now what?
Notice who shows up and especially notice how you feel about him or her!
If you are like most human beings, as soon as you attract what you asked for, or for some people it is enough to just imagine you will attract your soul mate for the red flags to go up and sirens sound… in your head. What if I lose my freedom? What if they break my heart? What if they are_____ dishonest, lazy, abusive, unfaithful… fill in the blank with any and every fear you ever heard or held in the back of your mind because your soul mate relationship will surface them all; that is their job!
The Zuk Paradox states that any and every time you set a goal or intention, any and every conflicting thought or belief in your conscious or unconscious mind, that opposes what you ask for, will come to the surface to be reconciled. It works on any request: soul mates, money, careers, jobs… it is part of God’s grand design!
Some people call it the “self-saboteur”; that is one way to look at it but may not be the most effective way to approach it if you really want to get and keep what you want. The Zuk Paradox is actually designed and intended to help you enjoy and succeed with the soul mate, goal or wish you attract.
Once you reconcile or literally neutralize a limiting belief’s effect on you, you are free of it. Typically this allows peace, harmony and pleasure to characterize your experience. If this energy has been sufficient to block you from receiving your requested soul mate relationship; once neutralized the soul mate shows up instantly.
What’s the next step? Now that you asked for your ideal soul mate to manifest, think about the effect a soul mate will make to your life, notice what you feel. Recognize and analyze your emotions, trace them back to the belief that triggered them and voila, you will have the clue to solving the mystery of why can’t I attract or keep my ideal soul mate relationship!
Most, but not all, people are able to overlook or suppress their fearful feelings and beliefs through the wooing and dating stage, but at some point they will surface. Evidence is the divorce rate, and even more terrifying, the numbers of marriages where spouses find a comfort zone but actually live lives bordering on misery as they remain in an unfulfilling for the kids or appearances or lack of something better…
There is a better way!
Because you are reading this you are now aware of the Zuk Paradox and can proactively surface your fears for reconciliation. But do you know how-to reconcile these limiting, fearful beliefs?
Belief Change –The Book, available at Amazon.com (also available for Kindle download), Lulu.com and Barnes & Noble.com contains a simple, easy to follow process that walks you through surfacing those sabotaging beliefs and how-to reconcile them.
“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek and ye shall find; knock and it shall be opened unto you. For everyone that asketh receiveth, and he that seeketh findeth, and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.” Matthew 7:7 & 8 is a promise. Once you ask for your ideal soul mate, the Universe and God always provide, notice what shows up. If there is a barrier – if it seems your request has gone unanswered – it is not “God’s denial”; it comes from your unconscious mind and all those beliefs you have about what impact your soul mate will have on your life. Learn what they are and you regain control of your soul mate destiny.
Order your copy of Belief Change – The Book today!
Namaste & blessings,
janet lee
© jan gentleman-ingersoll Eastern Shepherd, Inc. 2010
Tags: Belief change, Beliefs, how-to attract love, Law of Attraction, Soul Mate, Soulmate
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